Katie X 2 = Judy

October 27th, two days ago, we celebrated Katie's 31st birthday. That makes me twice as old as she! Or maybe, Katies is 1/2 my age sounds better?
I know many of you were thinking and remembering and dreaming about your relationship with and your time spent and plans for spending time with Katie.
I had the good fortune of spending the day with my family - Katie's family. Ed and Beth came with Emma, Chloe and Chase. Michelle came down Friday night with Kayla and Hannah. John Evans arrived Saturday morning shortly ahead of Ed and Co.
John went directly to Katie's meadow where he thoughtfully placed a call to each of us and invited us to join him.
John Shaffer dropped me off at the back entrance to the meadow and I jogged in to meet John Evans and spend a few minutes with him.
The sky was overcast and there was a cold, fall breeze. Just the kind of day Katie loved - one that beckoned one to put on a hooded sweatshirt - 2 sizes too large and very soft on the inside - and some warm socks, and wrap oneself in a blanked and read or nap or a little of each.
Anyway, we sat together and John put his arm around me and we sat in the gravel and grass on the side of the path and we remembered together - sometimes in silence and sometimes through shared thoughts and words. Not much in the way of lengthy discussions as our words often broke and that's when the hug tightened.
Shortly, Eddie and Beth and Emma, Chloe, and Chase came walking in from the south and joined us. A few minutes later, Michelle, Kayla, and Hannah come in from the north.
And so we spent some time enjoying the view of the fall meadow and the sound of each others voices, laughter, and tears.
We thought of all of her friends - those we know and those we don't know - and how they influenced her life and she theirs.
Later we walked the "adult" corn maze and took a hay ride and picked out pumpkins (there were non that were really ugly) and petted the horses on the farm where Katie had spent some time during her high school years. She didn't work on the farm or anything, she just went there for Religious Ed. classes that were taught by Dan Heffernan who owns the place. Now, his adult children, I think there are about 10 or 11 of them, come home every year and have this fall fest on the weekends in October. It's a great place and so Katie.
After supper was eated and the pumpkins were carved and the candles lit, we inflated the air mattresses - between ping pong games in the basement - and everyone settled in for stories.
Eddie read Old Black Witch followed by John Evans' reading of the The Very Persistant Gappers of Frip - a story which he and Katie introduced to all of us. I think it is fast becomming a family tradition.
Did I mention the giant cookie in honor of Emma's birthday?
And so, we celebrated Katie's 31st birthday in great family style - just as she would have liked.